NARCISSIST, SOCIOPATH, OR PSYCHOPATH?: HOW TO RECOGNIZE THE DISTINCTIONS

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    Surviving NarcissismSurviving Narcissism

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    As you learn more about narcissism, you may uncover a distinct lack of conscience in some. You wonder, "Am I dealing with a sociopath, or worse? Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter explains commonalities and distinctions regarding narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths.
    Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. Over the past 39 years he has conducted many workshops and over 60,000 counseling sessions.
    Books by Dr. Carter: www.amazon.com/Anger-Trap-Yourself-Frustrations-Sabotage/dp/0787968803/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1534952299&sr=1-1&keywords=The+Anger+Trap
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    While Dr. Carter and Laura do not conduct online counseling, we have vetted a group that can meet such a need: betterhelp.com/survivingnarcissism
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Maturity is earned
Maturity is earned

The female schemer married the male predator - oh great. Hope she is weaker after he’s gone so she doesn’t get the 4th husband. Who knows if her kids can survive him.

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no2well
no2well

No we should not glamorize people that injure only people that heal. Dr. Carter I work with attorneys, I think they are all psychos, help!!

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Terese Woltz
Terese Woltz

DSM does not acknowledge sociopath now. It is now psychopath. All Narcissists are pscychopaths, not all narcissists are psychopaths.

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Sandra Boletchek
Sandra Boletchek

Thank you for sharing!

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H C Hayes
H C Hayes

Forgot to add. I had some training in recognizing the demeanor of a person lying. This same narcissist landlord property owner of the house next door also used gestures of being a liar. Arms folded over his chest, covered his mouth when he spoke, kept turning his head left to right, talked fast, did some body leaning. I think we handled him well enough for the situation. I lured him off our property by "showing him" the view from our front door compared to his rental house front door area. He was defused when two friends of my husband showed up to buy a bike from him.

Πριν 14 ώρες
H C Hayes
H C Hayes

I am going to be a regular to educated myself from Dr. Carter videos. I wished I'd seen this video last year. We have just spent the last year dealing with a family of Sociopaths who rented the house next door to us. When they skipped on the rent and vandalized the house, the owner landlord showed up at our door and made threats against us, the other neighbors and H.O.A.. We hired an attorney and he instructed us to dial 911 on this guy the next time he's pulls a stunt on us. This landlord is 100% Narcissist. His entire demeanor fits what Dr. Carter describes in this video. Well, now we are better armed and I will have no guilt when we call 911 on him the next time he pulls a stunt.

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cathy laurenzano
cathy laurenzano

I cannot get my ex husband out of my life. He wanted a divorce years ago. Didn’t hear from him for seven years we started talking again. I didn’t see the signs when we are married before. But now I moved back to the same state and we got back together. I see them clearly now since the children are not there. I am moved out after about a year and a half of this. And he still warm I get out of my life. I’ve done a lot of studying and research and realized he’s definitely one of these three and I think it’s the latter. He’s in therapy every week oh and he also served in the military eight years. I want with him for the first two appointments and he will longer wants me there. The doctor is having a hard time diagnosing him by the way. Because he’s not honest not even till himself not to anybody even with the doctor. He pulls me in every time because he looks very convincing he knows the right words to say. But then we have conversations and will have two different conversations back to back and the second one will talk about at least 15 or 20 minutes. All of a sudden I’ll be back to the first conversation and he’ll deny we ever have a second conversation. He spends things and he blames it all on me. I’m the bad guy I’m punishing him. Oh and by the way we work together one day a week. He’s highly abusive physically mentally and emotionally. I’m realizing he has no empathy he has no regard to my feelings it’s always his. I’m always doing something bad to him to make him feel bad we broke up and I moved out about a year ago and every time we start talking again we’re going out again automatically. And I found myself when we go out to eat but I’ve been paying for it I took him in when he was affected did not ask for money he got his apartment I gave him money towards that. Is staying at my apartment to do three weeks more and could’ve moved in and didn’t. He milked it at my apartment. I don’t make much money. Oh and by the way when he stayed with me I took care of his cat while he slept. I am finding out it’s all about him. And I can’t get this man out of my life Juan around the same mountain around and around and around for the past 2 1/2 years and he will not get out of my life. He’ll get mad cause a fight and I won’t hear from him for a couple days and and he may even block me on his phone and he’ll be the first to do that. Then a couple days later areas again he never admits or talks about the arguments and when I bring it up it always put it on me he does not want to except responsibility for his actions of it. He does not assume responsibility. Lazy and his job does the least amount of work possible while others do the work. He’s very highly intelligent he has a pretty good high IQ. And I found all he does is lie and he doesn’t even admit it. It’s always about what I’m doing to him. And I am an empath. So I guess you can understand what this is like knowing I’m an empath. I can’t get the smell out of my life he won’t leave.He won’t leave me alone. He wants to get to gather and then after we’re together he demand sex. We’re not married I don’t want to have sex. And how dumb right do you mean as hell if we don’t have sex. I don’t want to have sex with anybody. I’m not a follower of Jesus Christ and he says he has one too but here’s the thing I don’t see good fruit falling from him

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Wonder Woman Smith
Wonder Woman Smith

Excellent video! Describes my mother & brother to a "T." Also BLM, antifa fascist, Demoncrat libtards, MSM, etc.

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Clare Kuehn
Clare Kuehn

Very nice, as usual. Thanks! 😍

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pati wallette
pati wallette

Thank you & God bless you.

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Janet Todd
Janet Todd

very informative I continually run across all three , it is important to learn how to deal with them . It is either very common or I am unlucky enough to find them

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Jackie Roy
Jackie Roy

Thank You Dear Sir. Your helpful advice and kindly approach are sincerely appreciated. Living with this unbearable behavior, taking in your terrific wisdom and observations eases my troubled mind. Plans for a better future are in the making.

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Lynne J.
Lynne J.

It seems to me that narcissists and sociopaths can be fun to be around casually (fun at a party), but you wouldn't want your best friend married to one. Nor would you really want any kind of close relationship, even friendship, with one. Psychopaths outright dangerous.

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Toni Johnson
Toni Johnson

My mother is all 3 ... no joke ... I use to need help when I was a child but I survived her now I’m no contact

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Allen Stuart
Allen Stuart

But what about if you know a person who shows and jas all these 3 traits

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

Keep your distance.     Dr. C

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WingsDragonfly
WingsDragonfly

Excellent information! Thank you. Years ago, nobody other than therapists knew what a narcissist was. It helps me understand why I could never resolve those relationships. Interesting point about the romantisation of rule-breakers. This rewards people for unhealthy behaviors. Much to digest in this video.

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Gladys Ogle
Gladys Ogle

I don't even have to watch the video to know this guy is too much. Mental health is like abstract art and can't be defined because if you take ten different doctors and a piece of abstract art they will all have a different perception. No counselor or support group can do what only you can and that is to change your mind to go in a different direction. Once you do that you change your circumstance. You are the only one that can make the decisions that will ultimately affect your life. Though I have lived thru the hatred, ignorance and the inferiority of others who purposefully wreak havok on the lives of others based on their emotions and not their principles. Of course it goes without saying you never mix business with emotions, and I have lived to see licenced therapists and counselors abuse that license making decisions that were purely based on emotions and not principle. I lived under surveillance for decades because I was in a porn ring that started at age 5. I along with my children became the price to pay those people's debt, meaning the people who placed me in that ring. A lifetime of struggle and simply trying to get away from these people who purposefully made our life a living nightmare. And in the end a doctor that gained access to my daughters phone number thru a surgery I had that I am left to wonder what his intentions were.....We use to call it premeditated when someone planned out a crime, now people just call it their job.

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Sophiah Koikas
Sophiah Koikas

what is a person who is all three!

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Claire Calitz
Claire Calitz

Thanks Dr Les, your explanations are so clear. I think I have a bit of borderline sociopath in my make up. I'm going to visualize my soul as a beautiful garden and weed out the ugly traits that have crept in. When I die I want to know I did my best. I started watching because I have just ended a relationship with a narc and now I find I just want to improve myself instead of yearning for another relationship. I need to be honest with myself and I've come to the conclusion that none of my relationships have worked long term because I need to work on being a better person. I clearly see the entitlement in myself and it's ugly. I want my soul to shine with beauty and goodness and that's going to be my new focus not a new relationship. Thank you for your good down to earth energy.

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Alex 282
Alex 282

Chillingly mine ticked all three boxes ...x

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T Palmer
T Palmer

This just made me think;how they make you think, everything os ok, so they can reel you into the DANGER.

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Gage23
Gage23

My current wife has traits in all of these. I'm so confused what's going on.

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H C Hayes
H C Hayes

If you don't have kids, and you are young enough, divorce. Divide it all 50% or give it all to your wife in the settlement. Give them no reason to pursue you after the divorce.

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MSG Lulu
MSG Lulu

When some one is playing with their own shit ... and put sex toys in their asss with shit on it... what is that ???

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

That's depravity, probably some psychosis. He needs help in the worst way.   Dr. C

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MSG Lulu
MSG Lulu

Merci monsieur....thank you Sir...

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Peaceserenity 101
Peaceserenity 101

This was very helpful. Thank you!

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Carole Lopes
Carole Lopes

Thank you for your expertise , it was very informative. You broke it down so well to understand and do think I've had a few of them in my life. This has helped me to really look deeper with the people I interact with. Thanks again and many blessings!! I will read it again and again to really understand.

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nowvoyagerNE
nowvoyagerNE

you are using "sociopath" (informal term) as the same as "antisocial personality disorder" (formal, psychiatric term), correct. why not use the formal term for the disorder?

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

You are correct, and I used the term "sociopath" because that is what the general public relates to more readily.  It was a judgment call on my part.     Dr. C

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ANA MALI
ANA MALI

Thank you Dr.Les. God bless you.

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

He just did...through you!     Dr. C

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Aubrey
Aubrey

Hmmm, now I'm a bit confused. My previous boss who I thought was a narcissist now I'm thinking might be a sociopath. She was definitely scheming, with the triangulation, sabotage, smear campaigns, etc. I wonder if Dr. Carter would categorize these traits as narcissistic or sociopathic?

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Mark Olander
Mark Olander

Dr. Les Carter Thank you!

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J Lock
J Lock

Donald Trump has every narcissist trait this man talks about.

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Kimberly Grier
Kimberly Grier

Thank you so much Dr. Les! This was so helpful. I knew my ex-husband was a narcissist, but I also think he is a sociopath. So glad I left him, my life is much healthier now.

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Zipo 26
Zipo 26

How would you know for sure

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andy. hello.
andy. hello.

describes royalty...

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Patrick X
Patrick X

Wait... Narcissist? Didn't he just described normal behaviors of the contemporary woman?

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Patrick X
Patrick X

@Surviving Narcissism Unfortunately most, but a paradigm deeply set in our culture that makes the ubiquitous invisible due to its pervasiveness.

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

All women?       Dr. C

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Bonnie Dunbar
Bonnie Dunbar

My mother was ill and my sister and brother inherited her illness. My brother was a thief and my sister died of alcoholism. I was terrified of both of them all my life. Can mental illness be passed from a mother to her children? I moved away 20 years ago and never want to go back? Thank you

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

There is something to be said for personality styles being inborn. That said, people can still adjust as long as they practice self awareness, insight, and accountability.    Dr. C

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D Kenobi
D Kenobi

Thank you Dr

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Eaglefly
Eaglefly

Only one person comes to mind MM!!!!!

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Bonnie Dunbar
Bonnie Dunbar

Can a person have a few traits from each group?

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Surviving Narcissism
Surviving Narcissism

Yes!    Dr. C

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Juan C Gutierrez
Juan C Gutierrez

Took me the three years i was with my narc. To learn about them. Now two years after being discarded and constant legal battle, i finally got to turn the table around.

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Patrice McDonough
Patrice McDonough

My 104-year-old mother is a narcissist bordering on on sociopathy, she drove my lovely father away then married a true psychopath. My youth was difficult of course, but it took decades and a lot of therapy to realize the truth. So here we are, she’s lived a really long life, and is still so slippery. I foolishly gave her a home with me, possibly still hoping for gratitude or recognition? She managed to get me investigated by the state for elder neglect a year and a half ago. The lesson here is they don’t change. Ever.

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John Goguen
John Goguen

These people think your here to make there life easy and they spend your money for you and your thoughts and worth are of no interest to anybody they will rob you then help you look for it

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NJ WEATHER WARFARE
NJ WEATHER WARFARE

Shared to OCCUPY AMERICA at wordpress. Please visit our extensive archives.

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NJ WEATHER WARFARE
NJ WEATHER WARFARE

HILLARY AND BILL CLINTON , THE ENTIRE BUSH DYNASTY, CHENEY, RUMSFELD, LBJ, CHUCK SCHUMER, NANCY PELOSI, HARVEY WEINSTEIN THEY ARE ALL TED BUNDYS.

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Myrna Davis
Myrna Davis

I had to make my escape as soon as the demon possessed fool was out of sight Thanks to the most high for his grace mercy forgiveness and protection for myself and my children We escaped with our lives The devil seeks to steal kill and destroy

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Ellen Davis
Ellen Davis

You are pretty darn good Doctor!

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Kim Terry
Kim Terry

Excellent... thank you.

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Sacred Geometry
Sacred Geometry

Everybody in high school should be watching this ! The media glamorizes the demon people because the demonic /Satanists control the media , banking, sports , music ect. The psychopaths are like drones and they also have different personalities . Women can tell when it's a psychopath because it makes their nerves edgy. I've never yet met a female it was comfortable with him he's known for making all women feel uncomfortable. His best friend said that he makes women uncomfortable and scared and he likes it I would agree he's twisted. Evil black blank hallow flat affect and cold-blooded and I leave anything out oh yeah sadistic ass**** he was sadistic to cats . Can't wait to get out of here away from that freak. I live with my boss as a live in nanny. I wondered why my cats were run so crazy when they see him and I found out he was doing statistic things to them to you like you did to his cat when it was alive yeah his cat that was conveniently poisoned My best friend is very intuitive and said keep your cats locked up in your room from that sadistic freak so that's an idea

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Michael Schrody
Michael Schrody

So..... which one is Trump? All three?

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Steven Thomas
Steven Thomas

Yes!

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AUDIOHOSTEM187
AUDIOHOSTEM187

MAY MR. TRAITOR TRUMP BURN IN ETERNAL HELLFIRE!

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Kent Graham
Kent Graham

Selective prosecution.

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Susan Barbour
Susan Barbour

I LIKE THIS GUY! He gets straight to the point re narcissism. I wondered if our firstborn had gone to the far end of being a psychopath, and this answered that question. A husband who goes through all of the drama, guilt tripping, abuse shows up dead. Then the first born tried to murder me...I was the cause of all of the problems in the world. SMH The sad thing is that if the sociopath is good, people buy into everything they concoct. I’m sure that I’m not the only one who’s been through this. When you get their number and stop buying into their bs, YOU are the worst person in the world.

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