This Is Paris #5 - (Trauma) - Therapist Reacts

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    Dr. Kirk Honda reacts to The Real Story of Paris Hilton - This Is Paris. Includes clips from This Is Paris (GRfilms).
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Brianna D
Brianna D

This makes me cry, I feel so horrible for Paris. She should never have gone through that

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Stephanie Chen
Stephanie Chen

@Max Rapptor wtf.....I'm not rich at or famous at all and this happened to me except at new haven rtc spanish fork Utah.

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Stephanie Chen
Stephanie Chen

@Amelia Mercer :(

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Max Rapptor
Max Rapptor

And this documentary is way to dramatic.. The message im fake because I was abused in my childhood???? And this is so a rich people problem... I don't want to compare problems but ther are artist who hadt a place to sleep or food... And they are now stronger than ever....

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Max Rapptor
Max Rapptor

Like why? Seriously why... There is no other person who is more fake than Paris and her whole documentary 🙄... I mean look she's a bad ass business woman 💯 but she has no voice no talent as actress and how she could be a role model? I mean even she says that she fakes her character... Look some rich people never will understand what a real problem is and her problems are only in her had...

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Shyrees L
Shyrees L

@Amelia Mercer well thank you. On the flip side, I feel bad for your poor kids. I feel bad, that the person guiding them hasn't told them what the realities of the world are yet. That as a parent, you can do everything right. And still be wrong. I would hope most parents, would instill a level of faith of them in their children. Because parents aren't gods, and they will make mistakes while doing everything to protect you. If parents didn't make mistakes, therapy wouldn't exist. You can do everything right, try to protect your kid at all cost. And unintentionally hurt them. It will happen to every last parent, without question. I only hope, that kids have enough trust in their parents. enough belief that, they know they were only trying to help. That kind of black and white thinking, is what gives children a complex.

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Shiela Filipina
Shiela Filipina

I am not an expert but whenever I look at her eyes, even we are apart because and I can only look at her thru camera, screen, etc. All I see in her eyes is, she's LOST. A vulnerable deer. Insecurities that she keeps hiding behind her fame, uncertainty. I pity her to be honest.

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Jamie Kensington
Jamie Kensington

Paris had a "i ain't fucking around no one will ever again get the chance to take my power away if I get outta this hellhole alive" attitude. Her parents are lucky their daughter didn't end up a drug addicted prostitute or stuck with some abusive jerk the rest of her life bc she just didn't want to have to depend on her parents who were the very first people to ever break her heart. So sad.....

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Luis Rodriguez
Luis Rodriguez

Let's be honest u watched all of this before making the video and the fact u try to act like u don't is pretty dumb come on

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

Thanks doc

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

They definitely behave criminally toward the kids. Intinsively. For endless hours days and years.

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

This is backwards

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

And spiritually

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

And socially

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

And physically

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Joe Stem
Joe Stem

Yep it definitely puts u in a strange lonely irrational place mentally

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Stephanie Chen
Stephanie Chen

They are Awfil evil schools in Utah ,!!! I’m from Utah .., went to new haven rtc ..was abused a lot at age 13 ..

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Alexandria Fitts
Alexandria Fitts

Paris...scapegoat.. Her sister....golden child

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KJ Kiss
KJ Kiss

How could parents do this to their child!!

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The green fairy
The green fairy

As a sister myself, it's disgusting to see Nikki's behaviour

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s k
s k

even middle class kids get sent to psychiatric hospitals and residential treatment aka me soley covered by insurance for however long the insurance will keep them - i went several times and was only let out when my insurance ran out and my parents refused to pay out of pocket and because the places i went received less money they were pretty under developed and bad - never helped - but not as bad as what is explained in this video but very similar

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Rainy Day
Rainy Day

Children have less rights in some states? Wow, the US really is a little f’d up.

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Abigail Simpson
Abigail Simpson

When I was a child I was literally terrified of being kidnapped (for seemingly no reason I had 0 trauma around that) anyway, if my parents hired someone to essentially kidnap me and do nothing I would run away and never look back. I can't believe things such as that are happening.

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Bruno Boyko
Bruno Boyko

I am amazed she talks to her parents at all after this. I have dropped contact with my father, my only living parent by the early 90s, for 26 years, for less.

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Amidala Medina
Amidala Medina

I wonder how much scientific truth there is to the idea, that severe ptsd in childeren causes alteregos that makes the chance of them becoming some kind of artist or celebrity, higher? There does seem to be a trend. Maybe its not about 'conversion' at all?

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Sarah Stephanie Landry
Sarah Stephanie Landry

That boyfriend wasn't just "hurting her feelings." He was trying to sabotage her right before a show that she cared about, he violated her space, grabbed her face and demanded sexual interaction (a kiss) AFTER she told him no and to leave her alone. She didn't immediately ask her security team to remove his bracelets. She gave him enough warnings, asked repeatedly to leave her alone, and only when he was pestering her up to the last few seconds before she went onstage, she finally did what she had to do and had him removed. Anyone else, if they didn't have her security team, would likely have had to put up with his abuse and I'm sure it would have escalated. I think the therapist in this video should talk to more women who have been beaten, because I don't think he saw the red flags many of us in the comment section do...

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Sarah Stephanie Landry
Sarah Stephanie Landry

Who decided the best way to force kids into prison camp "schools" was to get STRANGE MEN to KIDNAP THEM OUT OF BED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT???!!!!! Like, couldn't they have had people dressed as police pretend to arrest them during the day, like at lunch time, and read them their rights, which most sane people wouldn't fight back against, but it would be less F*CKING HORRIFYING?! It would still be a total violation of the kid's rights, but at least it wouldn't be a LIVING NIGHTMARE. I can't believe "therapists" thought that would be a good idea.

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Joe mzf
Joe mzf

I love this video.

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eth3rl0rds
eth3rl0rds

From the beginning to the end, paris tried to justified herself demonizing her parents. It's not easy to maintain a legacy and her parents tried their best to maintain the family name and boarding school came at the very end when everything else failed; remember, the parents with good family bonding always want the best for their kids and she was just being reckless. Even her sister sobered down, started her own family but she can never do because she's been a terminal selfish from the beginning. I can't imagine the amount of sleepless nights her parents had because of her! This guy is only reacting on one side of the story! Come on! This is her documentary, of course everything has to be in her favor!

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Brichanise Terrell
Brichanise Terrell

Is Utah relax on the child laws because of the Native American concentration camps? I agree about the traumatic experiences I just strive to be better and work harder, after the abuse and things I’ve been through. Romans 10:9 New International Version If you declare with your mouth,Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved

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Leigh Oosthuizen
Leigh Oosthuizen

Thank you for doing tgis documentary. Never thought my own traumas would be explained on a Paris Hilton documentary. When you said how the truth is never exposed because these children are told that they deserve it, it reminded me of a teacher telling me that I deserved it when she was shown evidence of the abuse I suffered at home. That voice stuck with me for decades and I have only just begun to work through my traumas.

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Khwezay
Khwezay

Where is the novel psychological analysis?

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M Leibs
M Leibs

Godspeed to you, Paris. Keep on your healing path; you deserve happiness just like everyone else.

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Melissa Allison
Melissa Allison

Nothing will save her but Jesus... I have a huge amount of respect for Paris after watChing her documentary.. I do hope she finds the healing only God can give

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That Amber Chick
That Amber Chick

As a mother of a 13 year old, I cannot imagine anything that would cause me to allow (let alone pay for 🤦🏼‍♀️) strangers to come in and grab my son like this. Seeing this broke my heart, and made me sick to my stomach. And when she mentioned that she saw her parents crying, watching, but not helping...it broke my heart. Edited to say: Luckily, my son has never put me in a place to consider this kind of a decision. I’m beyond thankful to have never been in that position, so I didn’t mean the initial comment as judgement.

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Catherine Maggot
Catherine Maggot

I was a troubled kid and my mom was about at the point to sending me to a school like that, I eventually cleaned up my act but Im so grateful that my mom never sent me away like this.

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Hristina Jovanovska
Hristina Jovanovska

That sister tho 🤭😢

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Panther Jones
Panther Jones

It disgusts me that this mother paid to have her kid KIDNAPPED and then sits and acts surprised that they treated her so poorly in these camps and beat her and made her suffer. If these men were comfortable doing this in front of the parents just imagine what they’d do behind close doors when this essentially torture is legal. I wouldn’t be surprised. Her mother only ever cared about their image it pisses me off that now she wants to play innocent. Paris was just being a kid, she was learning and growing. If her whole life was pushed into this cookie mold lifestyle of course when she got any freedom she wanted to experience life. Paris deserved better she deserved to be loved.

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Hailey Olivia
Hailey Olivia

Those camps and schools ARE evil and predatory though...

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Kendra Thompson
Kendra Thompson

Wtf..... We have those so called "camps" here in Washington State as well. I know because I was at one as a kid. Apparently this so called Phd has no idea wtf he is talking about.

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colourful souls
colourful souls

If you can find it to watch (and either for a video or just watch in your own time) there is a show from UK called “Brat Camp” and they film them taking these kids and film them at the camp..

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meg nemo
meg nemo

Ok this is what I would say having driven an emotionally handicapped high school route for years. If you cannot send your kid off to a place where they at least won't die. Why not hire an in home program where they can have freedom until they get dangerous in which case they can either calm down and accept limitations for safety reasons or be Baker acted. If you combined this with an appropriate therapist who could also do in home family therapy this would I think help. If these measures are ineffective and in a peer specialist and I personally love having a trauma therapy bird for sleep and deescalating trauma triggers I have.

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Natasha M
Natasha M

I went to a boarding school 3000 Miles from home At 15. I went to one I couldnt get kicked out of. My siblings went willingly to one near the beach. I’m 46 I never dealt with the betrayal I felt also being adopted I felt some type of way. You explained so much in this short. Video Thank you. I also want To say after 9 Months they said I Could graduate but I had to choose another boarding school to go to and not the same one as my siblings. I was never aloud to go home again to live. I had kids at 20 to start making my own family. Never had a real relationship was a single mother my whole life choosing partners who were not really involved. A lot of us girls were adopted who attended this school and none of us have happy relationships Actually maybe 1 married early and still is married the rest of us not at all. :/

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AnaNas
AnaNas

Popular girls are bullies just on tv screens

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Karl Themel
Karl Themel

The FBI is in charge of kidnapping because the offenders can move victims across state lines! Pedophiles look for venues where they can commit their crimes. In some countries, they get on a government payroll. Some parents shame their children in public and have no business to have children! Many Europeans lived in poverty just after WW II. Some of them very much enjoyed being able to throw items away after the scarcity ended in the early 1950s.

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ローズ Rosé Shin
ローズ Rosé Shin

Let's just say we believe the parents don't know what's going on in that school. But then, how did they hear about that school? Did they not do any research at all? They just found the first school that could manhandle a little girl and went, "sounds good, let's go with that"? I mean I understand they have brochures and ads, but again.... research...? They just happened to choose a school that's the worst when there are other school that are potentially better than that one...?

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Power Faded
Power Faded

The money may have not dissolved her trauma, but it may have saved her life. Maybe she would have gotten killed if she didn’t achieve all that success. A type of family that would have you kidnapped, might have you killed too.

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Erin
Erin

can you make a video about resources people can reach out to? i have been mildly depressed for years. but whenever I went to school mental health service, they only would want to make sure that I don't commit suicide and i don't hurt others. they don't try to help me. at all

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Maggy DeAnda
Maggy DeAnda

Check up Kat Von D testimonie she was send to that same school.

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Erin
Erin

?the sister n the mom? gross af

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VHEAVER 123
VHEAVER 123

So sad. I’m waiting for her to say something happened as a child to cause her to act out. There is always something. Really do feel for her.

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Ms Pretty Kawaii
Ms Pretty Kawaii

There is something weird in Seattle

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ummassiya
ummassiya

If children behave so extremely search for the problem in their education by their parents because children are the secret of their parents.......

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Maybe David
Maybe David

Paris, use your money and power to help shed light on the traumatisation of children! And go and see a good psychologist/counsellor for 5 years so you can talk about some of the feelings you're experiencing!!

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Maybe David
Maybe David

And what she really needed was to sit down for a year with her parents and a family counsellor and tell them of her deep need for more love and attention. Parents can't just "pay" someone else to sort out their kid's problems. Parents need to stop over-working, thinking that money will solve all their problems, and spend more time loving their kids. Is it any wonder that Paris thinks that money might help to solve all her problems?

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Mariana R
Mariana R

I can not for a second understand why Paris’ parents would set up her kidnapping. This is horrible. Even if she acted out why couldn’t they just talk to her or get her counseling. 😓

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nana jinah
nana jinah

This makes me relate to Paris a lot. My own mother and sisters are horrible to me and treat me because I am not normal or rather their idea of normal. They always insult me and have hit me several times. My mum is like Paris' mum. So cold and detached thinking that she knows what is best for me.

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R May
R May

I relate to her feeling of betrayal on a much smaller scale. When I was a freshman in band in high school they had an initiation where they would come wake you up and kidnap you from your room in the wee hours of the morning in your pajamas then parade you around campus the whole day. My mom knew this was the plan - I didn't. I started my cycle that morning and found this out shortly _after_ they had already taken me from my home. Everyone at school got a pretty good laugh out of it but I felt ugly and horrible all day. I didn't enjoy it at all, but never said anything to my mother because she viewed it as _"fun,"_ and didn't mean any harm. Even though I understood that on an intellectual level, I always felt betrayed on an emotional level and felt she should have forewarned me so I could have prepared a little.

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Ramona Woohoo
Ramona Woohoo

Imagine the level of stress in the moment they take you with explaining, that's trauma forever!, what do you put your kid through this?

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Zoey Jackson
Zoey Jackson

KIDS DON'T HAVE ANY RIGHTS I TOLD THE COPS WHAT THEY'RE WERE DOING AND THE COP ASK MY PARENTS AND OF COURSE THEY SAID THEY DIDN'T SO THEY LEFT AND I GOT BEATEN AGAIN SO THANKS WORD!!!

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Angelica E. P.
Angelica E. P.

I hope u get help & you’re okay.

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Zoey Jackson
Zoey Jackson

Kids act out only if your a bad parents

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China Bell
China Bell

These aren't schools they're correctional facilities for children being justified by calling them schools. Its legalized child abuse for parents and a gateway for the instructors at these institutions to abuse children that have no parents who truly care for them. It's an institution for parents to send their children to when they don't want to deal with their children anymore. If they were concerned about their children's safety and development from child to adulthood then they would seek therapy individually and family sessions as well. All these asshole parents did was lose patience and love for their children. They traumatized their kids because they were too time consuming.

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Lauren S
Lauren S

Thank you for doing this. The trauma response is really dysfunctional - fight, flight, freeze or fawn. When there's a perceived threat. It comes from a place of past trauma, but interferes with my current life.

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Lauren S
Lauren S

"All my anger went into my drive for success" - sublimation. Healthy. Doesn't heal the original trauma but is a good coping mechanism. She's fortunate she had the mental health to do this, many people don't have such helpful, life-enhancing, productive responses after trauma.

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Tubifia
Tubifia

How can these "boarding schools" even be legal??

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nyutubeI1
nyutubeI1

This story was truly shocking to me. Reading other people's comments, I realize that there is something wrong with the United States when it comes to basic children's rights. In Italy, my country, '' schools '' such as those described would be illegal. And not only in Italy, also in Europe. What Paris is doing now is admirable, starting to make people realize how disgusting these places are, and rightfully pushing for their closure. I understand, however, that the closure of these schools is not enough, as until appropriate laws are guaranteed in your country for the protection of minors, the risk is that these places will continue to pop up like mushrooms, only under others names.

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Miss Chievous
Miss Chievous

I like that he actually pay attention to the video and isn't being dismissive. Unlike the reaction video from Dr.Todd, geez that was so uncomfortable to watch

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Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd
Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd

Paris her parents should’ve just gotten her a therapist when she was acting out. And her family should also have gotten to therapy. She should have done individual sessions and family sessions in therapy.

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Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd
Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd

Hopefully Paris will see this and get the help she needs. I relate to Paris so much, I just want to cry

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Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd
Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd

Paris deserves so much better in life, she should cut her family and all other toxic people out of her life

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Flying fig
Flying fig

Her boyfriend was "hurting her feelings"? more like he wouldn't stop nagging her like some child as she was getting ready to perform at her biggest event ever. And she kept asking him to stop, not now and he wouldn't stop. She was very calm considering and did the right thing taking his bracelets.

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Mary Goff
Mary Goff

If you have to hire people to kidnap your child to "straighten them out" then you have no parenting skills whatsoever. No communication. No empathy. No love. Nothing.

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LorraineVirginie
LorraineVirginie

When it does “work” the “why” is fairly obvious - learned helplessness. If you do this again we will send you back. Fear is a very powerful motivator. As you said, in this case the risk and trauma out weighs the benefit.

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Holo Holo Adventures
Holo Holo Adventures

I enjoyed hearing this analysis

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THE JEDI KNIGHT
THE JEDI KNIGHT

This is sad.

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Etele von de Kleen
Etele von de Kleen

I can relate to Paris and i bet, many of us can. Sometimes you feel, why people don't understand the way you are. They think.. you are crazy.. and going the whole time out of your way, as you were someone who has a sticky sickness in himself.. well this is not the case. I feel this feeling my whole life through, always, but i'll appreciate if sometimes people not just telling me the whole time, they understand me, but can accept it too? After my father died, my "family" thrown me away as a piece of trash. They thought, i'm like my mom, a problematic one, as she was. They thought this is the best for me. In my case, they don't wanted contact to me ever since. And not talking to me, ever. This is more than 30 years ago happened to me and i'm still traumatized. I'm processing yet my whole life long, it hurts my whole life through and yet i'm working on myself to not feel bad anymore. But you can never forget those things what happened to you, what you lived through, although.. you have success, sometimes.. but in the end of the day, you are alone at home with your feelings in your mind in the darkness. You learn through the Years to silence yourself, trying to adopt yourself in everything, to feel better. Yet your own flesh and blood disowning you again and again and you're still trying and trying to get answers of your questions. And the time comes one day to giving up on them, but the danger is already happened. Done. I don't understand why they did this to me, why they disowned me, what have i done to them? I was born into this family, is this my fault? Everybody telling me, i should let them go, forever.. what i long have done, accepted the situation. But the movie in my head is still there and nobody cant wipe it out. Medicine or therapy, non of them can erase this piece in your memory. What i really wanted through the Years, only once... they should really know what i made it through, who am i, who i really became as a person, but first of all, a human being as everybody else too. I found my Peace in my Life, that i'm never gonna be accepted by "those people". Finally. I wish for Paris only the best in her Life, but i really wish for her, that her "family" really understands her Life as a human being and... what they done to her. Rich or poor, this is not important anymore, everybody has a Heart in his/her chest and everybody has a red blood. No matter what. Peace.

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Stephanie Stone
Stephanie Stone

You can tell he’s a good therapist

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sharhful
sharhful

Basically her parents wanted to fix her behavior to help their image at the cost of Paris’ soul. They couldn’t care less about her. So sad 😭

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Sanuiza
Sanuiza

Thank you Mr. Honda. What you said at 21:53 is exactly what has to be changed in the psychiatric practice, best immediately.

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Arwa
Arwa

What about children who live in this everyday by their own parents?

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lauren Callas
lauren Callas

My experience 2000 , It was in the middle of the night I was making food insomnia my mom was also In the doorway crying as they held my arm after they took me in the room and checked me for "sharps " I couldn't put my shoes on and they wouldn't tell me where I was going till I was over the border of Mexico . I remember looking out the window crying and I felt like my throat ripped out . I still to this day have nightmares my moms bf spent over $80,000 for the year I was there my moms bf broke up with her so home i went...Im so proud of Paris she has helped me to have a voice about my experience.

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Troubled Teen Help
Troubled Teen Help

We may not be able to find the people that did this to you in 2000, but we can find the people active right now. We will not let any human trafficker rest.

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Frankie Furbag
Frankie Furbag

She is justat the beginning of her journey to wellness. She has a long way to go. The parents, sister and the people she surrounds herself are toxic. I hope she keeps going. She can save her life and have a great second half.

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Theodora Katsoulogiannakis
Theodora Katsoulogiannakis

This is horrible! How could parents do this to their children???? Maybe the parents should have gone to school to learn how to be good parents!

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Shawn Mercer Crain
Shawn Mercer Crain

She needs to wear a bra.

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Snow Pearl
Snow Pearl

This reminds me of the Chinese therapist. He would zap children so many times to make them obedient. A lot of Chinese netizens wants to take him down but he have a good amount of followers.

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Isa B.
Isa B.

Thank you for adding your input💜As a survivor myself this is so helpful to see the outpouring of support from people all over. Many parents have no idea what we go through. I’d say most. They convince them before then that we must be kidnapped for our own good. Many don’t think it will be damage us this much.

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Troubled Teen Help
Troubled Teen Help

Time to cause them some serious damage. Time to make the survivors haunt them for life.

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dragonclaws
dragonclaws

Imagine being so rich you can pay someone to beat your children. My dad had to do it himself. We are working class.

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Diana Best-Hutchison
Diana Best-Hutchison

It's awful and sick! This man really knows what he's talking about.

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Juan Antonio Moreno
Juan Antonio Moreno

Dr., I believe what this is about is MK Ultra. She speaks about several male handlers, drugs at school, torture... Those are many elements.

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Tanya Edwards
Tanya Edwards

Oh my gosh, I had no idea and when I saw the Youtube video about the new Paris vid, I thought, oh yea, she's not relevant anymore, she wants to get onto the bandwagon again, so I haven't bothered to watch it- I'm so sorry- I don't know how I would've reacted had this happened to me. So sorry to hear that this is real :(

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Amanda Berg
Amanda Berg

I worked a children's psych unit/residential program in Utah. It was a miserable place. I tried to help the kids feel like they weren't prisoners but I'm not sure it worked.

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NativeNYerChicHK
NativeNYerChicHK

That midnight kidnapping serves the purpose of “Shock & Awe” and we use on the battlefields of war. We absolutely should NOT be using it on traumatizing our children 🤬 This is really just fucking heartbreaking 😢💔🤬

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Troubled Teen Help
Troubled Teen Help

@NativeNYerChicHK I am unable to travel to Utah too. Best thing to do is to get in the faces of the people who work for the TTI near you, contact them through their own industry resources, and encourage the people of Utah & Montana to face them too.

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NativeNYerChicHK
NativeNYerChicHK

@Troubled Teen Help well, they’re not allowed to exist in my state. However, the loophole is that you CAN Commission their services in my state to transfer teens to the schools in places like Utah, which should also be illegal. Because honestly what sense does it make that it can’t exist here “brick & mortar”, BUT you’ll allow your residents to hire thugs, coming into states in which they’re not legally allowed to operate their abusive business in, under the cover of darkness and drag your kid thousands of miles away, transporting a child over multiple state lines, in order to abuse them. I’m dumbfounded. But I do have kids to raise, even if they’re teens they still do need me here, so I can’t just up and leave to Utah or wherever else they exist to protest for this cause. BUT I sure can harass my own state assembly and legislature to make the “kidnap and transport across state lines” portion illegal here. And I sure will too!!! This isn’t over for me. But I can only do what I’m reasonably capable of. I won’t be silenced!

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Troubled Teen Help
Troubled Teen Help

@NativeNYerChicHK What I mean is are you willing to face these abusive persons head on and tell them that what they are doing is wrong? They hide in the shadows, want very few people to know what they do for a living. They are not used to the general public who have heard these horror stories to get in their face and tell them they are not above human decency. The time has come to terrify them. To make them afraid that their public appearance advertises their crimes against children.

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NativeNYerChicHK
NativeNYerChicHK

@Troubled Teen Help What do you mean? I’m not sure I’m following. You mean when I’m done raising my own I can go teach them how to do it? 😂 Because the number one change would be who fills their halls... In all honestly I believe it’s the parents that need no-nonsense rehabilitation... Kids, future adults, can’t possibly need to be “reformed”, they’re not even done being FORMED yet!!!! I would bet of the kids that are there, their parents are a varying degrees of abusive unhealthy without even knowing it, suffering with and inflicting on their kids things like: obsessive, oppressive/controlling, co-dependent, manipulative, neglectful, detached, and then plain overwhelmed when those kids rebel from being crushed under the weight of their parents neediness. But because they’re fully formed adults, and they don’t realize what they’re doing wrong in their parenting style, they cannot see it’s their unhealthy parenting that caused the problem between them and their kids. Their kids behavior is just the byproduct of their chosen parenting style. Zero self awareness and zero willingness for self reflection. And predatory capitalism saw that struggle and took FULL advantage, with it they took a huge bite out of American families, ruining trust and severing that sacred bond, all for the almighty dollar. Instead of rehabilitating the parents, like should have, they told they parents; no you’re right, it’s your kid who’s so bad and needs to be whipped into shape. And for thousands of dollars we can do it! 😢💔🤬

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Troubled Teen Help
Troubled Teen Help

@NativeNYerChicHK Are you willing to walk into their office and say you do not have a job anymore?

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hello kitty
hello kitty

But when at the end Paris said I love you mom & refuses to divorce her brand, i feel betrayed too.

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hello kitty
hello kitty

The parents are accountable.

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herewegokids7
herewegokids7

A. Dr Phil does this B. I find it very telling that Nikki says she never worried about this happening to her.

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Virginia
Virginia

Omg he’s said the same thing three different ways in the first 5 minutes - yes we get it

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Miss VeggieVixen
Miss VeggieVixen

Listening to you for the whole segment, was a really good eye opening experience to watch. I really appreciate you sharing your view on this, as I didn't even know these places existed! Thanks for your input! I hope the right ppl learn about these places, get them shut down completely or simply fade and end all together! Thanks again!🤗

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ymctjmt
ymctjmt

Note that he father didn't participate in the documentary. How telling.

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9000ck
9000ck

I don't know, her career as a party girl seems more like a reaction formation than a sublimation, to me. I think she could reach peace through sublimation though, think the documentary is an example of sublimation and honestly I think she has the emotional intelligence to keep going and healing.

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Deni Tarantini
Deni Tarantini

can someone summer it up

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Margaret Walker
Margaret Walker

I just wanted to tell thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your Paris videos popped up in my feed, and I can't tell you how much of a difference just watching this paris series changed my life. Your trama analysis hit home and actually caused me to almost hyperventilate. I know that sounds horrible, but I had suppressed my childhood trauma for so long, I had assumed I was "over it". I didn't realize I needed to start seeing a therapist until watching your videos. Thank you so much for making me realize I needed to work through my trauma.

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Inara
Inara

“Understanding the impulse” to basically abuse your own children? Gosh, you’re such a swell American guy...

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Lindy B
Lindy B

Hello! I'm new to your channel! I'm a Psychotherapist in Ontario, Canada and was wondering if you could recommend further education and courses specifically on how to help navigate clients through their trauma. You spoke of how there are many steps to implement before they even discuss their traumatic experience and I agree! Any recommendations, reading materials etc would be greatly appreciated :)

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miss me
miss me

I would never ever trust or love anyone again, specially, my parents. When I get old enough, I’d return the favor, and do the same thing to my parents....maybe even, when they are old and helpless, like I was as a child.

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Tater Tott
Tater Tott

Yeah that's really tramatizing....try having your one biological parents die and be kicked out at 14 by the step parent, for no reason, after getting knocked tf out. I wish I had parents that gave a crap about me....ify stepdad had money he would of paid to ha e me drug away just to laugh in my face.

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